I wrote my ‘song of the day’. It is titled –Friends. I happened to watch a touching and apt movie last night called My Best Friend.so the topic of the day is…I kid you not.. friends.
I love French Cinema for many reasons, one is I usually don’t have to put up with any idiot soundtracks – ‘oh pizzicato strings…it must be a funny bit’…check out how many ‘blockbusters’ use this nonsense use of music.. I love France and wish my French was up to it, as I would be there like a shot, living i in some beaten up apartment above a bakery or cottage somewhere. Sadly being a bit dyslexic, I find I have remembered every word I learned in my O’level days, but my short term memory and ability to take in anything new is, and always has been….pants.. There is also a depth and poignancy in French film you do not get in so much other cinema. The French definately resonate from their hearts and it seems to come through in so much of their cinema. The Prophet …best film I saw last year, gritty and so well observed.
So My Best Friend is the perfect film for anyone who is spending their time musing over one of the post-a-day ideas for a blog title. I will not spoil it for you, but recommend it. It asks all the right questions about ‘what and who is a friend’.It also has a great little plot, as well as a lot of beautifully sensitive and funny moments. Daniel Auteil is one of my favourite actors. Don’t be put off by bumf on the poster ‘popularity contest’ nonsense . It is quality.
So friends ha! very complicated and the discussion could go on and on. So I shall just ask the following questions …
who might you call at 3am in the morning?( and I am not meaning a cab or the 24hr pizza parlour )
who is not going to mind if you cancel?
who is going to tell you that they mind if you do?
who do you want to take with you when you decide to emigrate?
who is a constant, even if you don’t see them for weeks, years, their place in your heart is somehow permanently tattooed?
who makes you laugh at yourself?
who knows you and understands you, and makes you feel like you are an easy person to get on with, and not a messed up, complicated hard to understand type of being?
is that all too much to ask?
No I do not think so, but friends like flowers, need to be nurtured and cultivated ( not over watered though and in this day and age, the busy busy lifestyle makes it very easy for many of us to forget to keep in touch – my hand is up first…guilty as charged. So here I am reminding myself, as does my song to thank the Lord ( which ever one/thing you want to thank..) for these friends of mine. Thanks.
SONG OF THE DAY ( there are 2 )
FRIENDS written and performed by Gitika and Mickey B. Goode on album ‘bittersweet by gitika’ its available to buy on itunes and amazon -it earned me $20 last year ( the whole album that is…..not alot) -just guitar and voice buy it here
and click on the title-friends to listen to it all the way through……
‘you took the time to listen to me moan , bout the trouble in my head, let me sit and cry, worries now have all run dry, it;s so good that the problem’s shared’ and PLACE IN MY HEART written by me and Andrew McCrorie-Shand in 2017 listen by clicking HERE