I remember someone saying this to me. I also recall the comedian Dylan Moran  (a favourite of mine) in his tip top show  ‘Black Books’ making the rapid retort when another character told him they  loved him. “Baked me a cake then”

Some call it ‘active’ rather than  ’emotional’ love, the sort of thing you need to be a good parent or partner for instance. I must say I find it funny that some people in my life can say  ‘I love you’ and then do nothing that would seem to show it. It seems a bit of a waste, if it is just in your heart and mind…..or is it??????discuss.

SONG OF THE DAY – If I knew you were coming I’d have baked a cake -Eileen Barton