….so there is really no point in beating yourself up about the things you are not good at. Today we are going to remind ourselves about the things we do well. Many people were not supported enough as children and were left feeling abandoned or unfed, so easily fall into the place of feeling negative about themselves, it can take years of work to get over childhood traumas.

So today we are going to remember that every single one of us has at least 5 special qualities and talents (and I wish I  can remember where I heard this) You maybe the best  warm up act, the best  ‘finisher offer’ of tasks, the person who makes everyone feel good about themselves, the leader through the storm, the person who know exactly how big the space is where the wardrobe used to be, the person who does the scoring when you play darts,  the one who always delivers the best jokes, the person who knows that ‘that dress does not do anything for you’, the best parent even though you don’t have kids, the best cake maker, the best cake eater…..SO MANY TALENTS, SO OFTEN FORGOTTEN

Why not for today, have a proper good go at focussing on what you do that is good and put a lid on all the things you do that someone made you feel  insignificant or wrong about. Also remind someone you meet today of one of their special talents that you appreciate.

Lets do it! We are all wonderful unique beings…yay!

SONG OF THE DAY- Then Came You -Detroit Spinners and Dionne Warwick

I have arrangeded this for four part Acapella. We are singing this next week at Bishopsgate Singers  at Maxine’s request..thanks Max. The arrangement is finished wrapped up  and ready to roll. Such a great song.